The Brickhouse Co. - Identity Architects

Let’s get real. Nobody talks about how hard  surrender really is. Everyone makes it sound easy: "Just trust God. Just let go." But if you’ve been there—staring at bills, bullied by humans, condemned, judged, stepped on, pushed aside, or having your life scrutinized—you know it’s not that easy. I’ve been waiting for a download from the Holy Spirit about what to talk about next. I didn’t want fluff. I wanted to be raw, real, and transparent , to share my honest journey through

Living in the wrong identity feels like an endless cycle of survival — like you’re breathing but not alive. For years, I kept myself trapped in a version of life that didn’t match who I really was. Each year felt like déjà vu — the same struggles, the same disappointments, the same quiet ache inside. It wasn’t until I got still enough to look at my life honestly that I realized… I wasn’t actually living. I was performing. I was surviving a script someone else wrote for me — o